Warning Signs of Relapse: A Road With an Exit for Each Sign
Put your early warning signs on a watercolor road (emotional, mental, physical) and build an exit for each one. Or map your triggers by heat. Groups can share triggers anonymously.
A lapse is not a failure and doesn't erase progress; plan what to do after a lapse too.
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Stopping alcohol or benzodiazepines suddenly can cause seizures and can be life-threatening; opioid withdrawal is rarely fatal itself but is very hard to get through safely alone. Stopping should be medically supervised. Outside the US, ask your doctor or local health service for addiction support. After a break, tolerance drops, so a return to use carries a high overdose risk: never use alone, carry naloxone and call 911 or the local emergency number for an overdose. In a group, only share what feels safe, and never share other members' triggers outside the group.
How to play
- Road: pick a stage and tap or write your warning signs. They appear as curves on the road.
- Tap a sign and choose an exit: what you'll do when you notice it.
- Trigger map: add people, places, feelings and times, and rate each one low, medium or high.
- See your road or map, then copy or print it.
About the technique
Relapse prevention is a cognitive-behavioral approach developed by G. Alan Marlatt and Judith Gordon in the 1980s for alcohol and drug use. It treats relapse as a process rather than an event: high-risk situations and the person’s coping responses shape whether a lapse occurs, and how the person interprets a lapse shapes whether it becomes a full relapse (Witkiewitz & Marlatt, 2004). Steven Melemis later described relapse in three stages, emotional, mental and physical, with warning signs that appear well before use (Melemis, 2015).
The central exercise is mapping: naming the client’s own warning signs and high-risk situations, and planning a specific exit for each, so the process can be interrupted in the emotional or mental stage when changing course is easier (Melemis, 2015). Cognitive-behavioral relapse prevention is supported by trials and reviews (Witkiewitz & Marlatt, 2004), and in a randomized trial both standard relapse prevention and a mindfulness-based version reduced relapse risk compared with treatment as usual, with the mindfulness-based version showing advantages at 12 months (Bowen et al., 2014).
It suits adults and teens in substance use treatment, individually or in groups. Plan for lapses as well as prevention, so a slip is treated as information rather than proof of failure, the reaction Marlatt called the abstinence violation effect (Witkiewitz & Marlatt, 2004). Stopping alcohol, benzodiazepines or opioids can be medically dangerous and should be supervised. After a period of abstinence tolerance drops, which raises overdose risk, so include naloxone and not using alone in the lapse plan. In groups, agree that members’ triggers stay in the room.
For therapists: how to run it
Goal
Spot relapse early, at the emotional and mental stages, and have a specific exit ready for each warning sign and high-risk trigger.
In session
- Share your screen or send the client link. Start with the road: emotional signs first, when there's still lots of time to act.
- For each sign, ask 'what would you do the moment you noticed this?' and set it as the exit. Keep physical-stage exits fast and simple.
- Switch to Trigger map to rate high-risk people, places, feelings and times, and write a plan for each high one.
- Review the 988 and SAMHSA lines together and copy the plan into the record.
As homework
- Add warning signs as you notice them during the week, and an exit for each.
- Print the road or keep a photo of it somewhere you'll see it.
- Tap See my road. Tap Copy on the result card, then paste it into your therapist's secure messaging (client portal) or bring it to your next session. Nothing is saved, so copy before closing.
With a group
- In Trigger map mode, press Play together and share the code. Each member joins on their own device with a first name or initials.
- Members add their own triggers privately and tap Share anonymously. The host screen shows only how many people named each trigger, never who.
- Discuss the shared map: what's most common, and what helps. Tap Group summary for a note listing the triggers that came up.
Group mode collects nothing but counts: the host sees each trigger with how many people named it, and players' individual maps stay on their own devices. Crisis and SAMHSA helpline details are on the page and in every summary.
Worksheets that pair with this tool
Relapse Prevention Plan Worksheet
A two-page plan pairing triggers with coping strategies, support contacts and a daily routine.Tips for Avoiding Relapse Worksheet
A two-page handout for naming personal triggers and choosing seven habits that protect recovery.Anger Coping Skills
Eight steps over two pages, from naming triggers and body signs to 4-4-4 breathing and a written coping plan.Sources & credibility
- Method
- Relapse prevention: early warning signs, stages of relapse and high-risk situations
- Developed by
- G. Alan Marlatt and Judith Gordon; stages of relapse described by Steven Melemis
- First described
- 1985; 2015
- Approach
- Cognitive-behavioral relapse prevention
- Evidence
- Supported by studiesCognitive-behavioral relapse prevention is supported by trials and reviews for alcohol and drug use, including mindfulness-based versions. Mapping warning signs and high-risk situations with a coping plan is its central exercise.
References
- Witkiewitz K. & Marlatt G. A. (2004). Relapse prevention for alcohol and drug problems: that was Zen, this is Tao. American Psychologist, 59(4), 224–235. Source
- Melemis S. M. (2015). Relapse prevention and the five rules of recovery. Yale Journal of Biology and Medicine, 88(3), 325–332. Source
- Bowen S., Witkiewitz K., Clifasefi S. L., et al. (2014). Relative efficacy of mindfulness-based relapse prevention, standard relapse prevention, and treatment as usual for substance use disorders: a randomized clinical trial. JAMA Psychiatry, 71(5), 547–556. Source
- SAMHSA National Helpline (US), 1-800-662-HELP (4357). Source
How it was made
Built by the Mentalyc team from the original method and the published sources listed here. Nothing you enter is stored.
Questions people ask
What are the stages of relapse?
Relapse is often described in three stages: emotional (not looking after yourself, isolating, bottling up feelings), mental (part of you wants to use, cravings, thinking about old times) and physical (taking steps toward using). Spotting the early stages gives the most time to act.
What should a relapse prevention plan include?
Your personal warning signs, your high-risk people, places, feelings and times, a specific coping action for each, people you can call, and what to do if a lapse happens.
Can a group use this anonymously?
Yes. In Trigger map mode the facilitator starts Play together, members add their own triggers on their own devices and tap Share anonymously, and the shared screen shows only how many people named each trigger.
Where can I get help with substance use?
In the US, the SAMHSA National Helpline (1-800-662-4357) is free, confidential and open 24/7 for treatment referrals. Outside the US, ask your doctor or local health service. If you're in crisis or thinking about suicide, call or text 988 in the US or Canada, or your local crisis line or emergency number elsewhere.
How do you teach relapse prevention in a group?
Map each member's warning signs across emotional, mental and physical relapse, name their high-risk situations and plan a specific exit for each. Anonymous sharing of triggers helps members see they are not alone.
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