Bubble Breathing for Kids: Blow Big Bubbles with Slow Breaths
Press and hold while you breathe out slowly to blow a big shimmering bubble. Too fast and it pops! Five big bubbles wins.
About the technique
Bubble breathing teaches children slow breathing with a long out-breath by borrowing something they already know how to do: blowing a bubble. A bubble grows only when you breathe out gently and steadily, and pops if you blow too hard. That gives a young child an immediate, visible reason to slow down, without needing to understand counts or ratios. It is a playful framing of slow breathing rather than a named technique with a single originator.
The physiological rationale comes from adult research. Slow breathing with a lengthened exhale is associated with higher heart rate variability and more parasympathetic activity, along with reports of calmer, less aroused states (Zaccaro et al., 2018), and a meta-analysis of randomized trials in adults found breathwork linked to modestly lower self-reported stress (Fincham et al., 2023). Breathing games for children have not been studied this way, so treat the evidence as practice-based: a sensible, low-risk way to teach a skill whose benefits are better documented in grown-ups.
It suits preschool and school-age children, and works as a session opener or a skill families practice at home. Teach it while the child is fairly calm, so it is familiar when a big feeling arrives. Keep rounds short and let the child return to normal breathing between bubbles, since several deep breaths in a row can leave anyone lightheaded. If a child has asthma or another breathing condition, check with the family about what is comfortable, and for a child who is already very upset, breathe alongside them rather than giving instructions.
For therapists: how to run it
Goal
Teach a child a slow, long breath out they can use on their own when they feel worried or mad.
In session
- In person, the child holds the tablet or presses the trackpad. On video, send the client link so the child blows bubbles on their own device while you watch and breathe along.
- Show it first: breathe in through your nose, then press and hold while you blow out slowly, as if blowing a real bubble. Let go when your breath runs out.
- Count the out-breath together (“1… 2… 3…”). If a bubble pops, say “too quick, try slower”, never “wrong”.
- After five bubbles, ask the child to pick how their body feels and where they could use bubble breathing this week.
As homework
- Once a day, when your child is calm, open the link and blow five big bubbles together.
- Use it again when worry or anger starts, before it gets too big.
- Pick how your body feels. A grown-up taps Copy for my therapist, then pastes it into the therapist's secure messaging (client portal) or brings it to the next session. Nothing you type is saved, so copy before closing.
Exercises like this can lead to disclosures of abuse, neglect or risk. Know your reporting duties before you start, and pause if one comes up.
Bubble breathing teaches children a long, slow out-breath, the part of paced breathing that helps the body settle. The bubble only grows while the button is held and pops if the breath is too quick, so it rewards a slow, steady exhale (3 seconds or more). Keep it gentle: no breath holding, and stop if the child feels dizzy.
Worksheets that pair with this tool
Deep Breathing Worksheet
One page with a paced inhale, hold and exhale cycle, plus guidance on when to practice it.Worry Coping Skills for Kids Worksheet
Three illustrated pages with eight child-friendly strategies, from Bubble Breathing to a Worry Box.Family Mindfulness Schedule Worksheet
A three-page planner for setting family mindfulness goals, choosing activities and scheduling the week.Sources & credibility
- Method
- Bubble breathing (slow, long out-breath taught through play)
- Developed by
- No single originator; child mindfulness and CBT practice
- Approach
- Breathing / child self-regulation
- Evidence
- Practice-based (limited trials)Slow breathing with a long exhale has physiological evidence, mostly from adults; bubble-blowing games for children have not been studied.
References
- Zaccaro A. et al. (2018). How breath-control can change your life: a systematic review on psycho-physiological correlates of slow breathing. Frontiers in Human Neuroscience, 12, 353. Source
- Fincham, G. W., Strauss, C., Montero-Marin, J., & Cavanagh, K. (2023). Effect of breathwork on stress and mental health: A meta-analysis of randomised-controlled trials. Scientific Reports, 13, 432. Source
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Questions people ask
What is bubble breathing?
Bubble breathing is a calming exercise for children: breathe in through the nose, then breathe out slowly as if blowing a big bubble. A slow, steady exhale helps the body relax.
Does blowing bubbles help you calm down?
Blowing bubbles naturally slows and lengthens the out-breath, which can help children calm down. This game rewards slow breaths with bigger bubbles.
How do you teach deep breathing to kids?
Make it playful and visual, like blowing bubbles, smelling flowers or blowing out candles. Practice when calm so the skill is ready when big feelings come.
How do you teach deep breathing to young children?
Use a picture they already know: blowing a big bubble needs a slow, steady out-breath, and too fast pops it. Practice a few breaths when the child is calm, then cue the same image when a big feeling starts.
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Children should use this with a parent, therapist or teacher, not on their own.
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