Feelings Detective: An Emotion Detective Game for Kids

Crack the case: face, body, situation and words clues appear one at a time. Guess the feeling with as few clues as you can, then say when you felt it too.

10–15 minutesIn person and on video
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Faces don't always show what someone feels, and that varies across people and cultures: treat clues as hints, not proof.

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Some children (for example autistic children) read faces differently; lean on situation and words clues and avoid framing it as right or wrong.

How to play

  1. Open a case. Look at the first clue: body, situation, words or face.
  2. Guess the feeling. Not sure? Reveal another clue.
  3. Fewer clues means more stars: 4 stars on the first clue, 1 on the last.
  4. When you crack it, say when you felt that feeling too.

About the technique

Feelings Detective builds what developmental researchers call emotion knowledge: recognizing what someone feels from their face, body, situation and words. Carroll Izard and colleagues showed why this matters: in children from low-income families, emotion knowledge at age 5 predicted social behavior and academic competence at age 9 (Izard et al., 2001). Teaching emotion recognition is a common element of school social-emotional learning programs, which improved social-emotional skills, behavior and academic performance in a large meta-analysis (Durlak et al., 2011).

The detective framing lets children gather clues from several channels rather than relying on one. That matters, because faces are less reliable than many games assume: a major review found that people express the same emotion with different facial movements across situations, individuals and cultures, so a frown does not always mean anger (Barrett et al., 2019). Putting the situation and the person’s words alongside the face gives a more accurate and more realistic picture. The game format itself has not been tested, so it is a practice-based way to rehearse skills that research links to good outcomes.

It suits younger children, individually or in groups, and works well early in treatment and in social skills work. Present clues as hints, not proof, and avoid framing answers as right or wrong. Autistic children and others who read faces differently may lean on situation and word clues, and that is a valid strategy, not a deficit to correct.

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For therapists: how to run it

Goal

The child learns to read feeling clues in faces, bodies, situations and words, and links each feeling to their own life.

In session

  1. Choose Little detectives (4 choices, easier feelings) or Big detectives (6 choices, trickier feelings) in Settings.
  2. Let the child read or hear each clue (tap the speaker). Ask: what made you think that? Body clues are often the hardest to spot, so ask about them.
  3. After each case, the debrief asks: when did you feel this? Listen, then tap whether you talked about it. Nothing is written down.
  4. On video, press Play together: the child guesses on their own device and you reveal the clues. The summary lists the feelings found.

As homework

  1. Play a few cases on your own or with a grown-up at home.
  2. After each case, tell someone at home when you felt that feeling.
  3. Tap Copy for my therapist on the result card, then paste it into your therapist's secure messages (client portal), or bring it to your next session. Nothing is saved, so copy or print before you close the page.

With a group

  1. Press Play together. Your screen is the case board; each child locks in a guess on their own device.
  2. Reveal clues one at a time. Children who lock in the right feeling earlier get more stars.
  3. After each case, invite two or three children to say when they felt it. Everyone sees the final scores.
Mandated reporting

Exercises like this can lead to disclosures of abuse, neglect or risk. Know your reporting duties before you start, and pause if one comes up.

Good to know

Each case gives the four ways we work out how someone feels: their face, their body, what is happening and what they say. Characters are drawn simply and vary in skin tone, hair, age, glasses, hearing aids and head coverings. Mixed or close feelings (nervous and worried) both count.

Worksheets that pair with this tool

Sources & credibility

Method
Emotion knowledge games: recognizing feelings from face, body, situation and words
Developed by
Emotion knowledge research: Carroll Izard and colleagues; feeling games in play therapy: Heidi Kaduson and Charles Schaefer
First described
1997; 2001
Approach
Social-emotional learning, play therapy
Evidence
Practice-based (limited trials)Children's emotion knowledge predicts later social behavior and school success, and emotion recognition is taught in many child social-emotional programs. This game format itself has not been tested.

References

  1. Izard C., Fine S., Schultz D., Mostow A., Ackerman B. & Youngstrom E. (2001). Emotion knowledge as a predictor of social behavior and academic competence in children at risk. Psychological Science, 12(1), 18–23. Source
  2. Durlak J. A., Weissberg R. P., Dymnicki A. B., Taylor R. D. & Schellinger K. B. (2011). The impact of enhancing students' social and emotional learning: a meta-analysis of school-based universal interventions. Child Development, 82(1), 405–432. Source
  3. Kaduson, H. G. & Schaefer, C. E. (Eds.) (1997). 101 Favorite Play Therapy Techniques. Jason Aronson.
  4. Barrett, L. F., Adolphs, R., Marsella, S., Martinez, A. M., & Pollak, S. D. (2019). Emotional expressions reconsidered: Challenges to inferring emotion from human facial movements. Psychological Science in the Public Interest, 20(1), 1-68. Source

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Questions people ask

What is an emotion detective activity?

Children look for clues to work out how someone feels: their face, their body, what is happening and what they say. Guessing with fewer clues earns more stars, and each case ends with a question about when the child felt the same way.

What age is Feelings Detective for?

Little detectives (about 4 to 7) get four choices and familiar feelings. Big detectives (about 7 to 12) get six choices and trickier feelings like jealous, disappointed or embarrassed.

Can more than one child play?

Yes. Press Play together: the therapist reveals the clues on the shared screen, and each child locks in a guess on their own device. Earlier right guesses win more stars.

Why teach children to read feeling clues?

Recognizing feelings in others is linked to better friendships and behavior at school. Body and situation clues also help children notice their own feelings earlier.

How do you build emotional literacy in children?

Teach feelings words and the clues for each: face, body, situation and words. Then practice spotting them in stories and games, and link them to the child's own experiences.

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